ازدواج یکی از مهمترین
تصمیماتی است که هر فردی با آن روبهرو میشود. زوجین برای شروع یک
زندگی مشترک، انتظارات و ادراکهایی دارند. در صورتی که بین ادراک زوجین و
تجربیات زندگی آنها هماهنگی وجود داشته باشد زوجین از رضایت بیشتری برخوردارند،
ولی هرچقدر این شباهتها کمتر و ناهمخوانی بین تجربیات از همسر و انتظارات بیشتر
باشد، زوجین از رضایت کمتر و تعارضات بیشتری برخوردارند و ممکن است این نارضایتیها
منجر به طلاق شوند. پژوهش حاضر، با هدف مقایسه تفاوت ادراک شده زوجین از یکدیگر،
قبل و بعد از ازدواج در زوجهای راضی و ناراضی انجام شد. بدین منظور، رویکرد کیفی
با روش پدیدارشناسی مورد استفاده قرار گرفت. دادهها از طریق مصاحبههای عمیق و
نیمهساختاریافته، با ?? نفر از زوجین راضی و ناراضی که حداقل دو سال و حداکثر پنج
سال از زمان ازدواجشان گذشته و به روش نمونه‌گیری هدفمند انتخاب شد، جمعآوری
گردید و سپس از طریق روش هفت مرحلهای کلایزی، نسبت به تحلیل دادهها اقدام شد. از
بررسی و تحلیل مصاحبههای انجام شده در پاسخ به سؤالات در بین زوجین راضی، ???
مضمون فرعی و ?? مضمون در قالب مضمون اصلی ارائه شد. ?? مضمون فرعی در طبقه ابعاد درون‌فردی
و ?? مضمون فرعی در طبقه ابعاد بین فردی قرار گرفت. مضامین ابعاد درون فردی در
قالب ? مضمون اصلی و مضامین ابعاد بین فردی در قالب ?? مضمون اصلی ارائه شد. همچنین
در در پاسخ به سؤالات در بین زوجین ناراضی، ۹۴ مضمون فرعی و ۱۴ مضمون، در قالب
مضمون اصلی ارائه شد. ۲۰ مضمون فرعی در طبقه ابعاد درون فردی و ۷۴ مضمون فرعی در
طبقه ابعاد بین فردی قرار دارد. از دیگر نتایج این
پژوهش، در رابطه با مقایسه زوجین راضی و ناراضی این بود که در زوجین راضی نیز
مانند زوجین ناراضی، تفاوت ادراک قبل و بعد از ازدواج وجود داشت اما فراوانی تفاوت
ادراک شده در بین زوجین ناراضی بیشتر از زوجین راضی بود. از نتایج این پژوهش
میتوان برای اصلاح ادراکهای ناکارآمد زوجین در مشاوره پیش از ازدواج بهره گرفت.
Marriage is one of the most important decisions that each
individual must take. Couples have specific expectations and perceptions when
beginning a life together. If there is harmony between their perception and
their life experiences, the couple would be more satisfied. On the other hand,
the fewer these similarities are, and the greater the inconsistency between the
experiences of the couple and the expectations get, the less satisfaction the
couple has and the more conflicts there may be in their relationship. These
dissatisfactions might even lead to divorce. The present study aimed to compare
the perceived difference between couples before and after marriage in both
satisfied and dissatisfied couples. For this purpose, a qualitative approach
with a phenomenological method was used. The data was collected through
in-depth and semi-structured interviews with ۲۴ satisfied and unsatisfied
couples who had been married for at least two years and at most five years. The
sample group was selected by purposive sampling, and then the seven-step
Claizian method was applied for the data analysis. From the review and analysis
of the interviews conducted among satisfied couples, ۱۰۴ sub-themes, and ۱۴
main themes were identified. Twenty of these subthemes were categorized as
intrapersonal dimensions, and ۸۴ subthemes were placed in the category of
interpersonal dimensions. The themes of intrapersonal dimensions were presented
in ۳ main themes, and the interpersonal dimension was presented in ۱۱ main
themes. Also, the answers among unsatisfied couples led to the identification
of ۹۴ sub-themes and ۱۴ main themes. Twenty of these sub-themes are in the
category of intrapersonal dimensions, and ۷۴ sub-themes are categorized as
interpersonal dimensions. Among other results of this research, relating to the
comparison of satisfied and dissatisfied couples, the results showed that there
was a difference in perception before and after marriage in satisfied couples
as well as in dissatisfied couples, but the frequency of the perceived
difference among dissatisfied couples was more than that of satisfied couples.
The results of the current research can be used to modify dysfunctional perceptions
of couples during premarital counseling sessions.
Marriage is one of the most important decisions that each
individual must take. Couples have specific expectations and perceptions when
beginning a life together. If there is harmony between their perception and
their life experiences, the couple would be more satisfied. On the other hand,
the fewer these similarities are, and the greater the inconsistency between the
experiences of the couple and the expectations get, the less satisfaction the
couple has and the more conflicts there may be in their relationship. These
dissatisfactions might even lead to divorce. The present study aimed to compare
the perceived difference between couples before and after marriage in both
satisfied and dissatisfied couples. For this purpose, a qualitative approach
with a phenomenological method was used. The data was collected through
in-depth and semi-structured interviews with ۲۴ satisfied and unsatisfied
couples who had been married for at least two years and at most five years. The
sample group was selected by purposive sampling, and then the seven-step
Claizian method was applied for the data analysis. From the review and analysis
of the interviews conducted among satisfied couples, ۱۰۴ sub-themes, and ۱۴
main themes were identified. Twenty of these subthemes were categorized as
intrapersonal dimensions, and ۸۴ subthemes were placed in the category of
interpersonal dimensions. The themes of intrapersonal dimensions were presented
in ۳ main themes, and the interpersonal dimension was presented in ۱۱ main
themes. Also, the answers among unsatisfied couples led to the identification
of ۹۴ sub-themes and ۱۴ main themes. Twenty of these sub-themes are in the
category of intrapersonal dimensions, and ۷۴ sub-themes are categorized as
interpersonal dimensions. Among other results of this research, relating to the
comparison of satisfied and dissatisfied couples, the results showed that there
was a difference in perception before and after marriage in satisfied couples
as well as in dissatisfied couples, but the frequency of the perceived
difference among dissatisfied couples was more than that of satisfied couples.
The results of the current research can be used to modify dysfunctional perceptions
of couples during premarital counseling sessions.
